The lobster's big secret
A lesson from the depths of the ocean.
For the next few minutes, I invite you to imagine yourself as a lobster. You're squishy on the inside, but you’ve got this tough, impressive shell that everyone thinks looks pretty cool.
But here’s the thing, you’re growing. And that shell? Not so much.
Soon, it’s like you’re wearing pants that are three sizes too small. Except the pants are your entire house. And you can’t just go shopping for a new one.
So what do you do? You do something that sounds absolutely wild: You take off all your armour. You become completely, utterly, magnificently vulnerable.
Because that’s how lobsters grow.
They live inside a rigid shell that doesn’t stretch or bend. So when that shell starts to feel tight, when the discomfort becomes impossible to ignore—the lobster knows: it’s time. Time to shed.
And shedding? It isn’t glamorous. It’s raw. Messy. Exposed. The lobster has to find a safe little crevice to hide in while a new shell slowly forms. Until it can emerge - bigger, shinier, changed.
And then… it does it all over again. Not once. Not twice. But every time growth calls.
To my lobster buddy reading this:
What’s the shell that’s confining you right now? A belief? A role? A routine?
Can you name the discomfort you’re growing through?
And where’s your safe space to be soft and exposed while you change? A person? A room? A journal? A long walk?
“Letting go of what is not serving you means transforming what does not serve you anymore in fuel for your evolution.” – Roxana Turcu, 35, Romania
Outgrowing with grace,
Team FUEL
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