The fruit of gratitude
On mangoes, mothers, and the invisible labour that keeps us alive.
In the Garhwal region of Uttarakhand, there’s an old belief that mangoes should never be sold for profit or denied to someone who wishes to borrow them.
According to a local legend, the mango was created to remind men of the debt they owe to women for nurturing them with their milk. Each time someone savoured the fruit, it was meant to stir a quiet sense of gratitude — for mothers, for women, and for the invisible labour that sustains life.
Selling mangoes, then, wasn’t simply an economic act. It meant turning something sacred into a commodity — forgetting the lesson the fruit carried in its sweetness: to receive without taking, to enjoy without exploiting, and to remember with humility the hands that fed you.
In this simple wisdom lies an ancient idea of the commons. That some things in life are meant to be shared, not owned. Be it mangoes, rivers, forests or care, they exist in abundance only when we hold them lightly, with respect and reciprocity.
Perhaps that’s what the people of Garhwal knew all along: that gratitude keeps the world in balance. That is when we remember where our nourishment comes from, and we begin to live in harmony with everything that gives.
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In celebration of every shared shade and seed,
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